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Ki Tetze 5767

"When a man marries a woman,,," - So much to say about this statement, which appears in two consecutive passages in this week's portion, in VERY different contexts. So much to say about the source of the mitzvah of marriage, but no time to say it, because it's only an hour until Shabbat and this Shabbat is, bli ayin hara, our oldest son's ufruf!!! This next week he is indeed "ki tetze", when he joins his kallah in their new home in Elazar after their wedding this next Yom Revi'i (Wednesday), G-d willing! May we all be blessed to built batim ne'emanim b'yisrael, to the thousandth generation!!!
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